I just went through a similar process, however 2 of the dealers I had met in person and did test drives, and one only via email that was in a bordering state and further away. The one I had the most contact with came in with a 2 1/2% discount, a complete joke. The 2nd local dealer came in at 6%, while the out of state dealer was at 7 1/2%. Placed my order with the out of state dealer on Monday.
Good luck!