You are not completely alone in your philosophy. I do my own oil changes and order OEM filters online saving lots of $. I am very detail oriented and do my research before I go to aftermarket depending on the product. Simple maintenance procedures that one can do if mechanically inclined are definitely worth the time/effort. Keeping a close eye on your car could also potentially save you if you see something that doesn't "look right" before it can become critical.
It comes down to comfort level. Do what provides you with peace of mind. I think the key either way is to perform all of the maintenance in accordance with Porsche guidelines. Porsche oil change interval is 10K however I would not personally let my oil go that long. Oil is cheap compared to a catestrophic failure as a result of not changing your oil! Mobil One years ago had a commercial that once advertised 25k miles in between oil changes however there is no oil that can withstand that usage if you actually send a sample off for Oil Analysis Program (OAP) analysis. Even synthetic oil cannot last that long. Talk to engine builders; take a look at an engine after that interval. There will be irreperable engine damage and that is a matter of fact not my opinion.
Continue to do what makes you happy! Do the maintenance regularly and as we all know you will continue to drive your ride with reliability. I have had very few mechanical issues over the years like you by religiously doing preventative maintenance.