@cabncruzr (Welcome to the forum, by the way) : Your experience isn't unique. Porsche's implementation of CarPlay within PCM4 is far from seamless -- which is an oddity considering that it works far better in VW's Infotainment suite, as well as in Dodge's Uconnect (I've experienced both firsthand).
For instance: Mine disconnects on occasion, will not load on occasion, hiccups/freezes on occasion, and will not dim/change color profile to match the interior lights on occasion.
The best things to do are threefold:
- ALWAYS start the car, then (and only then) connect your phone. That order tends to minimize hiccups.
- If CarPlay hiccups, unplug the phone at the Lightning connection, plug it back in, and make sure the screen is unlocked even if you have the phone set to unlock when CarPlay is active. Sometimes PCM simply doesn't recognize that 'unlocked' setting, I've found.
- If CarPlay does not load, you can reboot PCM4 while the car's running or in motion by holding in the volume knob for 20 seconds. (You'll know it's rebooting because you'll see a colored 'Porsche' crest image shown in profile as the first image.) This almost always fixes any immediate issues.
If none of the above work, make sure your iPhone's iOS version is up to date.
Hope this helps!